Nursing Homes Need Support, Not Blame

April 13, 2020
Jill Vitale-Aussem, The Eden Alternative

Photo by Branimir Balogović on Unsplash

Reposted with permission from, April 12, 2020.

I had hoped, with the current focus on healthcare workers as heroes, that the demonizing of nursing homes would cease during the pandemic.

It hasn’t.

I’ve seen very few news stories blaming hospitals when patients die from COVID-19 but nearly every story about people dying in a nursing home outbreak somehow blames the nursing home.

While there are always some bad apples, the vast majority of nursing homes are full of incredibly talented, passionate and dedicated leaders and team members who are doing the very best they can during a devastating and unprecedented time.

A recent survey conducted by McKnight’s found that 77 percent of nursing home respondents were lacking personal protective equipment (PPE). This isn’t due to lack of trying or stingy budgets. These organizations are working around the clock trying to source PPE. They order supplies only to have the deliveries intercepted for care settings deemed more critical. Unable to procure what they need through normal channels, they’re begging for PPE donations and asking people to sew gowns and masks.

Even the strongest leaders I know – those that have created empowered teams, excellent infection control protocols and incredibly well-run communities – are struggling, working seven days a week, implementing every infection control procedure they can.

And still, it’s not enough.

The virus gets in, not because of lax screening procedures, but because so many people are carrying the virus with no symptoms.

When the virus takes hold and Elders die, it’s not only the families that grieve. Those that have loved and supported these Elders for years are devastated. And during the pandemic, there is also an incredible amount of guilt. “Was I the person that unknowingly brought the virus in? Is it my fault that Alice died?”

Instead of being blamed, nursing homes need to be supported and nurtured during this incredibly difficult time.

Here’s what you can do:

  1. Remember, it’s not just nursing homes that are struggling. All Elder care providers are fighting hard against COVID-19.
  2. Share every positive story you see about the incredible creativity, love and compassion that’s happening in Elder care right now.
  3. Contact local Elder care organizations. Ask if you can help in some way. Order food for the staff, donate money, find some way to show your support.
  4. When you see negative stories about nursing homes or other Elder care organizations, write letters to the editor, contact journalists. Speak up!
  5. Do your part to stop the spread of COVID-19 to Elder care settings. Unless you’re an essential worker, stay home.

3 Comments. Leave new

Suzanne B. Hale
April 13, 2020 11:35 am

Thank you for this essential reminder. As we work through this new social paradigm, may we learn to truly support our elders care and those who care for them. Especially PSWs and non registered people.

Have an equitable loving system of care, means caring for the staff too! ❤🌹🌱

Harry (Rick) Moody
April 30, 2020 9:53 am

Very good, Jill. Keep this up. Scapegoating is going on in many
places. We don’t need it in long-term care.


You are a CEO of LTC facilities! No wonder you are spouting off this nonsense. Even if it were true of the “facilities” you oversee, it is not true of the vast majority of them. I have spent over 10,000 hours in my mother’s “high end” nursing home – where profits rule the day and residents are treated like cargo. COVID did only one thing as far as I can tell: It provided (and continues to provide) a cover for nursing homes to banish the eyes that kept them somewhat in line, leaving the facilities to unprecedented levels of unchecked neglect and abuse.


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